Is Marriage a Financial Mistake? Until Debt Do Us Part

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Until debt do us part. The rate rate of people choosing to get married, in western countries, is shrinking while the divorce rate is increasing. Also, people that choose to get married are waiting longer. Men within the MGTOW movement (men going their own way) seem to indicate that the divorce laws, including child custody and asset placement, strongly favor females. Weddings, as well as divorces, can be financially straining for those couples who seek to go the traditional marriage route. Also, more and more woman are choosing to stay single and focus on their career first as well as the woman that do get married are waiting until they are over 35 years old, on average.

While our inflationary, debt-based economy (roughly 1.5 trillion student loan debt in the United States alone) is a big factor, there is a large movement of people that are breaking the traditional mold and choosing to go their own way for reasons other than financial concerns. People are waking-up to the fact that happiness doesn’t always come with a shiny ring and a promise to hang around with each other until the end of their lives.

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KC Culp says:

Another reason for MGTOW is that women can get pregnant and have multiple children and the government will take care of them. The government becomes the husband / father. What a screwed up system. The women no longer need to provide the "female services" that the men married them for when the government will take care of them and replace the male.

Go MGTOW says:

Go MGTOW ; MGTOW = 'Men Guarding Their Own Wallet'.
If it flies, floats, or f*cks; Rent it, it's cheaper (and usually of better quality too).

Sahm Prepper says:

Paid off 300k of debt. Own two succesful business and one of them has over a million dollar revenue. About to buy first home with cash.

Been happily married to my husband for 7 years. We have two beautiful babies.

I know there are a lot of crazy women out there but gentlemen, please don't write us all off. I am so grateful to be married to my husband he is my best friend and my equal partner in life. Marriage can be something beautiful.

I am so sad that I am seeing marriages become destroyed with selfish men and women who only ever thing of "me me me." Dont give up, y'all! There are good men and good women out there I promise!

Go MGTOW says:

I don't have anything against marriage, my beef is with the STATE. I don't like how getting married can result in the state destroying a man's finances in life, that's what I don't like. I am totally okay with doing all of those marriage vows and everything EXCEPT the part where I do something that allows the STATE to tell me how I have to spend my money in case the relationship somehow ends, and 55% of marriages end within 15 years.

DaBing says:

Marriage is a mirage'. It's a racket. MGTOW means 'men guarding their own wallet'.

adiamondsmile says:

God knew what he was doing. Marriage is not the problem. Divorce is. People don’t know what real love is. Love is WORK. You don’t just marry because of looks OR money.

Ramone' Detroitguam says:

American marriage is a fallacy….

swim424 says:

Im happily in a relationship with a child, but I do not agree with marriage in its current form. The only difference between my relationship and a marriage is the married couple paid the government to recognize their relationship. People have tried to say "but tax breaks", which is true, but the logic fails me. I have to pay the government to recognize my private relationship so that theyll give me back slightly more money that they stole from me in the first place?? How about we get the government out of my relationship and my pocket instead…

Pick n move podcast says:

The reason people aren't getting married is because women want to be men without having to do man shit. The sexes are being merged ams there is no need for each other. Men get screwed in every way.

Electric Lamp says:

THANKS FOR FINNALY POSTING THIS AND OPENING THE WORLD TO THE REAL TRUTH

millertoyal says:

Most men are treated horribly in a marriage because they buy into that "she has to be a dime piece, supermodel, beautiful goddess" phenomenon. Men fall in love based upon what they can feel or see, very visual, tactical creatures. Based on this presumption, most men fall for very shallow pre-madonna's. Women who lack substance. In other words, you idiots reach down and pick up a snake, than become angry when it bites you! The reason for your horrible outcomes is based on you chasing all the wrong women for all the wrong reasons. I have girlfriends who are hardworking, educated, loyal and trust worthy, but men look right pass them because they don't meet their status standards. I have other girlfriends who spend 3 hours a day in the gym, 2 hours a day obsessing over their looks, 3 hours a day socialising and reading mag's on celebrity gossip whom men grovel all over! Their only serious chore in life is to conquer and subjugate some mindless, well-to-do Prince charming! A woman who's been told she's a "princess, beautiful and amazing" her whole life, tends to lack the emotional stability or grid iron perserverance to do much more than be a "princess" or socialite.
If you want a better outcome, try making better choices!

Michael Kestrel says:

You definition is accurate

addict_ car69 says:

Listen women aren't marrying because men aren't marrying them no men in today's society doesn't want debt ok. MGTOW is against marriage or family but today the court system is the not interested in family and for wife been there for you when your sick so what I'm single 49yrs and no kids and when I'm sick I have great Male and female friends to look after me or I have good money that I can pay to take care of me so no thinks you can go head marry but if and when you get divorced it's going to be???????MGTOW=freedom. Men don't need women it's women that need men?????

Jew bastard says:

Always Rent Never Buy. Look at the moniker picture men. That's your future wife but add sleeve tattoos.

M T says:

Marriage isn't a mistake. Marrying the wrong one is the mistake. Usually both the man and woman are the mistakes. AKA shouldn't get married at all. Of course, the more expensive the ring the more likelihood of getting a divorce. The girl was obviously judging the guy's love for her based on a $ sign. The bigger the ring or the money spent, the bigger the facade of life style they thought they would have with the fella. When that married life fall short of their tunnel vision from Disney shows, then they divorce. Nothing too surprising. And those single woman who deferred marriage and pursue a degree, then do not whine later why you couldn't conceived at the age of 50 years old. You can have a professional degree but at the sacrifice of having a family. Its rare to have both and be successful at it.

Jew bastard says:

Women, physically,mentally and financially are depreciating ASSETS! You'll find out eventually youngtimer.

Andrew Conway says:

You have a good attitude about it. Your not hasty to condemn these mgtow guys, as some married men are quick to do.

Tim Shelby says:

You should get lots of traction with this video. MGTOW for life !

unapologeticwhiteman Winner says:

LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL females going their own way LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL

unapologeticwhiteman Winner says:

not more "people" not wanting to get married. it's more MEN not wanting to get married. women control the birth rate, men control the marriage rate.

unapologeticwhiteman Winner says:

yes marriage is a financial mistake. marriage by in large only benefits women. if you are a guy that has or wants a girlfriend, you are at your most powerful position in the relationship not marrying her or living with her. the moment you sign that marriage license, she owns you.

Bear - Slayer says:

Good video. Heads up you may want to take the acronym MGTOW out of the title to reduce the risk of being demonetized by youtube…

Enlightened One says:

'J' Divorce is money for the lawyers and a way for the feminist women to take everything they want when they are 'no longer in love'. The main problem I see is that there needs to be 'no reason' in many states. It varies state to state…but these no fault/irreconcilable differences states are doing men a great dis-service. Feminists 'push' the 'oh..you're not happy/ don't you deserve to be happy?' BS…freaking 'brainwash' to society all of the time. 'fell out of love'. WTF? Guess what? MARRIAGE is SUPPOSED TO BE about 'COMMITMENT'. did people comprehend their vows when they recited them before all of their friends and family and blew all of that money?? Adultery. I would assess that most of todays society doesn't even understand the TRUE MEANING of the term. Our society immediately links it to infidelity. What IS adultery. It's meaning is 'the breaking of a promise/covenant'… so divorce is quite literally 'adultery'….and it is often the woman who is asking for it these days. …cuz 'she's not happy….or she has decided she is a lesbian…or she has decided that 'she really isn't into being a mom'…. the feminist movement… one big scam to not just enslave men..but also to enslave women….and the women willfully got on board with this… it was only a short period of time where the 2 income household meant more money for the family. Nope. Families make more income..price of goods and services increases. Now it is almost necessity to have a 2 income family household. Mothers went to work. Now we need daycare centers… you work while someone else takes care of and teaches your kid. Bad idea. Willfully giving up the ability to teach your kids the values and morals one holds themselves…now the children are brainwashed by those you entrust them to…. and the monetary cost of daycare isn't cheap. And most of them charge by the week…not the number of days your kid is attending… it's like having a gym membership …you pay for the whole month… no matter whether you visit the gym or not. And a daycare doesn't want your kid there if they are sick. so parents now argue over who is going to stay home with the child and miss work. Power struggle.Whose job is more important? who has more time available to take off?. family values are a thing of the past. that is to say the 'importance of the family structure'….. the 'family structure' is shredded…. now everyone works. they work. They shop. they run all over heck with kids in this and kids in that. 'Family time'…what the heck is THAT? The trend seems to suggest the goal is to spend as little time together as possible. All the 'conveniences of this era. Freeing up your 'time'…..time for WHAT? We seem to have less of it than ever before. The very moral fiber of the country is in shambles. 'Family values'…what family values? Morals? Appreciation for other people? No..it's every individual for themselves. Not for all..but it's a fast dwindling number of people who have the 'traditional family' anymore these days. Many have watched it slip away despite desperately having tried to maintain it/hold onto it….it seems impossible to fight the 'societal trend'. Marriage is for taxes. More money for the government. Which is why government got involved with marriage. They don't do anything unless there is money in it for them. Marriage 'license' WTF? We need 'Permission' granted from the government? Really? Screw there 'license'. You don't need a a permission slip/ license for 'commitment'. You just have to understand what commitment is. Can you honor your commitments or not? Any doubt? You shouldn't be entering into said ''commitment'…if it's 'just for now' say so. One big money grab for these feministic brainwashed women.. You wanna leave just cuz 'you're not happy?'.Fine. Take your personal shit and go. Just walk away. there should have to be valid reasons…mainly mental,physical abuse in some form. Maybe women should have to take a 'class'…explaining the 'stages of love'… the squishy,fuzzy wuzzy feelings you have in the beginning? guess what, honey?…they don't last forever.' Love is like a kitten… and it grows into cat….deal with it. Oh and you choose to have children…. you don't get to screw your husband financially because the children 'held you back from your career'… he didn;t MAKE YOU have children… that was a choice you made maybe together…or perhaps you went and got pregnant by 'accident' the first time…. and the guy…being a stand up guy wanting to do 'the right thing' married your sorry as*. You entrapped him. Maybe these types should have to pay restitution to the guy. Oh…and now guys can't be the way nature intended…we need those whimpy ,'sensitive' types. Yep…it's all just BS. I'm a chic. …with old fashioned values…maybe cuz I grew up in rural America (farm country) What I see going on 'today' makes me vomit. Much love to ALL of you!

Good Sense says:

Wow u are crossing over to manosphere sexual/relationship topics bringing mgtow cats out the woodwork lol. Have u just heard of mgtow recently? I just heard about it few months back. Wonder if they have a Wikipedia page lol

Sause y says:

No need for entitled western women. I'ma plow Asian women. Women want men to comeback. Get rid of feminism and get that ass in the Kitchen.

Emiljano Shehu says:

I hope that “Trickledown Economy” fixes all our financial problems. My health insurance went up, disability insurance went up, car insurance went up, phone bill went up. Strange??? But I know it will eventually benefit us

Drogo Baggins says:

A none MGTOW doing a video that doesn't try to insult or try to shame us… interesting. We don't see many of these. I'll have to check out your other videos.

Sonny Andreotte says:

im long batteries and cat food.

Darwin Glenn says:

Yes if your the man

Locqueen 2002 says:

I think it’s a sad state when there are so many hateful comments towards women. Why can’t MGTOW keep it real… most of them are opting out of marriage because they can’t afford a a feminine and pretty wife. How can any guy expect a woman to maintain her looks, be submissive, raise kids AND go out of the home and work like a man because the husband doesn’t make enough to support the home. It’s nuts ? On a side note… shout out to Bull Boom Bear Bust who seems to be a real intelligent, strong man. Your stats are on point!!! And your WIFE is lucky to have you.

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